Question
Does your husband support all of your penny pinching endeavors?
Answer
Dan and I have very different takes on frugality, actually. Although they are different, they compliment each other well. His frugality could be summed up in no debt and dont spend money. I like that and add in penny pinching.
Passive Frugality
Passive frugality is stuff we had to do once and are still benefiting from. I shopped around for auto insurance and got the least expensive apartment we could fit into. Those two items save us over $100 per month. We got a nice used car in good shape and havent needed many repairs on it. Choosing a good car didnt take too long, but we have reaped many rewards from that good choice. Dan has given me the task of researching these and has been pleased by what I can do.
Active Frugality
Active frugality is what we do now, today to pinch our pennies. This is divided into how to spend and how to not spend.
There are some things we must spend on, food, gas, and clothes. Dan loves my cooking. His one complaint is that he wants more snack foods, like cookies, crackers and chips. My take on snack foods is that making them feels like trying to fill a bottomless pit. They cost money, provide little nourishment and are eaten too quickly, so I do it by request. I count on him forgetting to ask for them and he does.
Not spending money on stuff like new shoes or DVDs is pretty easy for both of us. For example, I won a $25 gift card to Marshalls from We Are THAT Family in December and Ive only used $7 so far. Ill write about what I get when I use it all. Dan would have spent the whole gift card within a week, but not been tempted once it was gone. So, we have different styles of not spending money, but the same outcome.
Future Frugality
Future frugality is, in many ways, up in the air. We talk of pursuing a pastorate the most, but really we dont know exactly what it is God has for us. We have both at times felt we might be called to the mission field, yet God continues to direct our step toward a pastorate in Maine. Whatever we may do, financial discipline now is great training.
So, future frugality is in many ways hard to pin down, but it is in some ways wrapped up in housing. Weve talked about where we might want to live once he graduates and have discussed ad nauseum housing options. He wants something a little more traditional than a yurt or tipi, but is still open-minded. Hes all for a small home as long as it doesnt mean we have to get rid of all of his stuff. Hes generally okay with me gradually putting more of his stuff into storage.
Authority
Finances are something Dan gave me general authority over when we first got married. We run our family kind of like a government, but with less paperwork. He is the President/Prime Minister and Secretary of Defense. I am the Chief of Staff, Minister of Finance, and Secretary of Agriculture. He lets me handle most of the financial decisions, but he holds the red veto pen.
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